I wanted to join your community, I have recently joined LJ and do not really understand how to use it. I see that all my posts seem to automatically show up on your friends page taking up allot of space. That was not my intent. All I wanted to do at most was to participate on your site and to post a link to my site, which is currently oriented around making bagels. I apologize for any inconvenience this may have caused you but cannot figure out how to keep the posts I make to my journal from showing up on your friends site. Maybe you could help a newbie figure it out.